
by Irene Roth, Blog Editor/Writer
Summer is a time can be very difficult for fibromates. We want to enjoy ourselves now the warmer weather has arrived. But we struggle because our friends and family have so many plans for road trips that can make it difficult for us to cope and function effectively.
Many of us overdo it instead of speaking up and telling our family and friends that we won’t be able to join them for all their activities. You may have to just sit by the pool in the shade and rest, sipping some lemon water. Or you may need to take a nap in the afternoon.
Therefore, for fibromates, the excitement of travel must be balanced carefully with energy conservation, pain management, and self-care. The good news is that short summer trips can be both enjoyable and manageable with the right mindset and strategies.
Here are a few ways that fibromates can embrace short summer travel without overexertion.
1. Plan Mindfully and Pace Yourself
The key to a successful quick getaway is planning, down to the detail. Choose destinations that are within a few hours’ drive, train ride, or short flight from home. Think comfort over chaos. Avoid jam-packed itineraries; instead, opt for one or two meaningful activities each day with ample downtime in between.
If you’re staying overnight, book accommodations that are quiet, accessible, and restful. Call ahead to inquire about elevators, quiet rooms, or even blackout curtains. The more relaxed your surroundings, the better your body can handle travel demands.
2. Choose Fibro-Friendly Activities
When selecting activities, think “gentle joy.” Nature walks, garden visits, lakeside lounging, gentle yoga retreats, or visiting small art galleries and cafes are great choices. Avoid attractions that require hours of standing in lines or walking on hard surfaces. Look for destinations with benches, restrooms, shade, and places to pause and breathe.
If you’re traveling with others, communicate openly about your limitations. Let them know that you’ll need rest breaks or may sit out certain activities. Honesty upfront helps avoid disappointment later and makes space for mutual support.
3. Pack with Purpose
Make packing part of your self-care plan. Bring supportive shoes, loose-fitting layers, a sun hat, sunscreen, snacks, a reusable water bottle, medications, and any self-soothing tools like a heat wrap, pain balm, or portable cushion. A small journal or book can offer quiet moments of reflection and peace.
If you have dietary restrictions or prefer certain foods, bring safe snacks or research nearby restaurants in advance. Being prepared lowers stress and keeps your body balanced.
4. Prioritize Rest and Recovery
Even short trips can be exhausting for fibromates. Build in recovery time before and after your trip. Avoid scheduling anything taxing the day you return. Give yourself permission to do less without guilt. This pacing helps avoid flare-ups and makes the whole experience more sustainable.
Don’t skip your regular self-care rituals just because you’re away. Morning meditation, evening stretches, warm baths, or short naps can ground your body and help you recalibrate. Protect your sleep fiercely—it’s the cornerstone of managing fibromyalgia symptoms.
5. Practice the Art of Saying “No”
Sometimes, protecting your energy means skipping the sunset hike or saying no to an extra stop on the way home. That’s okay. Learning to say “no” isn’t about missing out—it’s about choosing what matters most. You deserve a joyful travel experience that honors your health and well-being.
6. Celebrate the Small Wins
A short trip to a nearby town, a picnic in a scenic park, or a one-night retreat can be just as enriching as a week-long vacation. Summer travel doesn’t have to mean far-off destinations and long to-do lists. For fibromates, less is more—and it’s more than enough.
Each moment of enjoyment without overexertion is a triumph. Celebrate that. Share your journey with others, take photos, write about it, and smile at what you’ve accomplished.
Short summer travel is possible—and even rejuvenating—for fibromates when done with care, intention, and compassion. With a flexible plan, fibro-friendly activities, and a deep respect for your own limits, you can create beautiful memories without paying the painful price.
The goal isn’t so much to keep up with others as it it’s savoring summer in your own gentle, glowing way. So, go ahead: take that day trip, feel the sun on your skin, and enjoy the world—on your terms.

Hi Maria,
I’m so sorry that you’re struggling with so much widespread pain. My heart goes out to you!
This is the nature of fibromyalgia, unfortunately.
I have found that being informed about what I can do on those worst days can really help.
With that in mind, have you taken FM101? It’s offered through the Fibro Support Network and our next session is coming right up. When I took the two-day workshop a few years ago, I was blown away by how much I can actually do to help myself. You may consider taking this workshop.
If you’re interested in registering, just email Jacqueline Fraser at admin@fibrosupportnetwork.com.
Take good care, and thank you for leaving a comment and visiting our blog!
Irene Roth
I’ve been just diagnosed earlier this year. It been quite a struggle. Widespread pain from neck down. Aching all over and it feels like right to the bone. Muscle pain and joint. It is hard when you see your friends able to do things and I can’t keep up. I’m just learning all about this diagnose and looking for help. ❤️
Hi Kellie,
It sure is. But we all have to be self-compassionate with ourselves and advocate for ourselves regardless. Self-love = self-care. Therefore, we have to assert our needs with loved ones by doing as much or as little as we need to, given what we’re going through on a particular day.
Thank you for visiting and leaving a comment!
Irene
Thanks good points it’s super depressing to see everyone around you have energy and it feels very overwhelming to not be able to keep up